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How To Conquer The Holiday Season With Your Contentment Intact

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Because of Thanksgiving this week, I wanted to take a break from the usual technical stuff and write a blog post about thankfulness. It’s not something you’ll find in any IRS publication, but it is a financial issue. As I Timothy 6:6-10 says, 

But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. (NIV)

Contentment is a powerful protective covering over our hearts and it originates in thankfulness. As such, thankfulness is the foundation of a God-honoring life, one that leaves us satisfied.

I was reminded of this recently when I saw some pictures from four years ago. My daughter has always been the last in the family to wake up, but one morning I came downstairs to find her writing a song. She had woken up with a worship song on her heart so she was writing it out. This is what she wrote:




The following morning, she did the exact same thing. As soon as she woke up, she went right to work writing. Here’s her second song:



What really struck me about her songs was not the creativity or even the fact that she was writing them, but that they were both centered on thankfulness. Her little 6-year-old heart woke up in the morning overflowing with thankfulness. How wonderful is that?

Don’t you wish we could all be that way? Just gushing with gratitude every step of the way on this journey called life?

But it’s hard. We are always cognizant of all the Lord has done for us and I think most of us are grateful on an intellectual level. Sometimes, though, it’s hard to get our feelings to match with what we know in our heads. 

I think God orchestrated things to have Thanksgiving right before Christmas as a way to prepare our hearts for the commercialized mayhem that the holiday has become. There is no other time of year when materialism rears its ugly head more strongly. 

Does the Christmas season ever leave you thinking…

I wish I could afford to get my son that virtual reality headset all of his friends are getting for Christmas. He’s going to feel so left out.

I wish I had a house with a beautiful staircase and banister to drape with Christmas garlands. I’m embarrassed to have people come and see my pathetic Christmas decorations in my little, old house.

I wish I could afford to buy my wife that diamond necklace in the catalog she’s had on the kitchen counter. Oh, how her eyes would light up to receive a little box on Christmas morning.

My kids are so excited for Christmas, I hope they’re not too disappointed that we can only afford one gift for each of them. 

The time leading up to Christmas (which keeps getting longer and longer) is when every retailer sets out to show you all the wonderful things that you never knew you needed or wanted. They are opening your eyes to everything you’re missing out on, much as the fruit of the tree of good and evil opened Adam and Eve’s eyes. In opening your eyes, they are also opening your heart to discontentment. 

Why are so many people sad over the holidays? Because they are focusing on everything they don’t have. The loved one that passed away; the newest iPhone; the normal, functional family that makes beautiful memories together instead of ending the night in cold silence; gifts overflowing from under the tree for their beloved children; a handsome sweetheart like in the Hallmark movies; a beautiful house covered in twinkling lights. 

It’s like the devil has tried to turn the beautiful message of Christmas, Emmanuel, God with us, to Look at all of the wonderful things that you don’t have and you’ll never be able to have.

Don’t fall for it. Fight against it. Even if you hardly have two pennies to rub against each other, you still have so much.

During this holiday season when ungratefulness and discontentment are crouching at the door, focus on what you do have instead of what the world is trying to sell you. Look for the silver lining even on things that you would never consider to be a blessing.

Are you broke? Jesus said that it’s harder for a rich man to get into heaven than for a camel to go through the eye of a needle. If you are completely self-sufficient, what use do you have for God? Thank the Lord for giving you a way to constantly draw near to Him and learn to depend more fully on him through your lack of finances. 

Are you missing a loved one? Thank God that they are in his presence, free of pain and sorrow, and you’ll get to see them again one day. If that’s not true, thank him for the motivation that their passing provides for you to share his love with others so that they don’t face the same fate. 

Are you far from your family? For some people, that in itself is a blessing. If you miss your family this holiday season, thank God for the extra time and attention that their absence provides that you can use to identify and reach out to others who are lonely and struggling.



Are you struggling with debilitating health problems like I am? (Yes, I still have long covid and no, it hasn’t really improved this year.) At least you’re still alive. As long as we’re still breathing, there’s hope for healing. Instead of focusing on what you can’t do anymore, focus on what you still have, whether it’s some physical capability, loved ones, or even just the technology you’re reading this on.

Are you envious of your friends who have nicer houses and more money to spend than you? Thank God you have friends and you’re welcome in their beautiful homes!

This holiday season, the world will try to get you to focus on everything you don’t have. 

DON’T DO IT. 

Stop what you’re doing right now and make a list of at least ten things that you’re grateful for. This is Thanksgiving week, it should be easy for you.

Don’t just think of them, though, you need to write them down. Write them down and print out your list. Put one next to your TV so that when the commercial comes on with the beautiful person with expensive jewelry having a great time at a holiday party, you can remind yourself of how blessed you are instead of longing for what they have.

Put a copy of your list by your computer so that when you get all of the spam from retailers, you can remind yourself that you have all you truly need. Put a copy in your purse or wallet, so that when you go to buy something, you are reminded of what really matters in life.

Instead of letting the commercialization of Christmas get you down this year, face the season with gratefulness and thanksgiving. If you need to, write a song like my daughter’s and start every day with it. Contentment is a shield that will protect your heart and right now is the time to gear up to defend it in the weeks to come.

And for any parents out there who feel bad that they can’t do more for their kids this Christmas, it’s going to be okay. My family didn’t even celebrate Christmas when I was young and when we started, there wasn’t much money for gifts. But that never affected my perception of my parents’ love for me or my security in them as providers. And I like to think that I turned out pretty well, in spite of it all. Your kids will too.

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What Is The Deadline For Pastors To Opt Out Of Social Security With Form 4361?

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We recently went over Form 4361, the IRS document used by pastors to receive an exemption from self-employment taxes. If you’re not familiar with it, you should go back and read about it here.

One thing we didn’t discuss in that article, though, was the timing. That’s because I didn’t want to overwhelm you with too much information. So, today we are discussing the timing involved and I will give you multiple examples to make things as clear as possible. It is important that you understand when Form 4361 can be filed because once your window of opportunity is gone, it is gone forever.

Is There A Time Limit For Pastors To File Form 4361 To Opt Out Of Social Security?

Specific dates are requested on the form because you only have a small window of time in which you are allowed to opt out of Social Security. Form 4361 must be filed by the due date, including extensions, of the second tax year in which you have $400 or more of net earnings from self-employment, any of which came from ministerial services.

That’s kind of long, so let’s break it down in reverse:

Earnings From Ministerial Services

The clock starts ticking when you have earnings from ministerial services. The IRS defines ministerial services as the services you perform in the exercise of your ministry. Usually, that would be wages earned or offerings received as a pastor. However, if you perform a wedding and the father of the bride gives you a $50 bill, that also counts as earnings from ministerial services. Basically, any money given to you because of some pastoral thing you did counts.

$400 Of Net Earnings From Self-Employment

You need to have at least $400 of net earnings from self-employment for the tax year in question to count towards the time limit. It is important to note that you don’t have to have $400 of ministerial income. Other non-ministerial self-employment income counts towards the $400. Even if you only earn the $50 for performing the wedding, if you earned at least $350 in your secular side gig, it counts towards your two years.

Second Tax Year

The deadline to file Form 4361 is based on two tax years. Tax years are calendar years and for this situation, they do not have to be consecutive. So, if you earn at least $400 of pastoral income one year and none the next, the deadline to request an exemption will not be triggered until the next year that you have sufficient ministerial income.

Due Date, Including Extensions

Finally, the due date for your Form 4361 is the due date for your tax return, including extensions. Tax returns are usually due on April 15 of the following year. Sometimes the date gets pushed back a day or two if the 15th falls on a weekend or holiday. In addition, everyone is eligible to file for a 6-month extension to file their return, which pushes the date to October 15.

Let’s take a look at how this might look in real life.

Examples Of How It Applies In Different Situations

Let’s look at an example. You get licensed and start a regular pastoral job in 2021 which pays you $50,000 a year. That means that your first tax year is 2021 and your second tax year is 2022, so you have to file Form 4361 by the due date for your 2022 tax return. That was April 18, 2023, but you could file an extension until October 16, 2023. So, you need to submit your Form 4361 by October 16, 2023.

Here’s another example: You get ordained in 2020 and work part-time, earning $10,000. Then, you take two years off and earn no ministerial income. In 2023 you do a few weddings and earn $500. Your deadline for filing Form 4361 will be the due date for your 2023 return. Even though you were ordained in 2020, the following two years, 2021 and 2022, don’t count towards the time limit because you had no pastoral income during those two years.  

One final example for the entrepreneurs out there: You have a small side business that generates $5,000 a year. You are ordained in December 2022 and earn $80 as a pastor that year. The next year, 2023, you work full-time as a pastor and earn $60,000. Your Form 4361 is due by the due date for your 2023 tax return. Even though your ministerial income was below $400 in 2022, your other self-employment exceeded the limit so that year counts.


It is vital that you understand the timing required for filing Form 4361. If you don’t file by the deadline, you forever lose the opportunity to opt out. There are no second chances here.

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Financial Planning & Speaking Engagements With The Pastor’s Wallet’s Amy Artiga

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I recently announced that I have obtained the Certified Financial Planner™ designation. As a result, I got a number of responses asking what kind of services I offer as a financial planner. One generous reader even wisely told me, “a more ‘aggressive’ tooting of your own horn would be appropriate.”

I hear you. Today I’m going to tell you about what I do beyond this blog, in case you want to be a part of it. 

Financial Planning Services

I offer financial planning services through Guide Financial Planning. This is a different company than Pastor’s Wallet and I do not own it. Financial planning and investment management is a very highly regulated industry so it requires a different business entity than the educational content I provide through Pastor’s Wallet.

I was originally planning on starting my own financial planning firm in order to have complete control over my schedule, who I serve, and how I serve them. I wanted a flexible schedule where I could put my family first and I didn’t just want to work with wealthy people‒I wanted to provide comprehensive financial planning for pastors and the middle class. 

Then I found Guide Financial Planning. 

At Guide, I have flexibility and get to do everything I want to do without having to go through the trouble and regulatory burden of starting my own financial planning firm. On top of that, I get to work with a wonderful team of people that have my back when I’m sick and help me out with my work and are also a joy to be around. Guide was serving pastors even before I showed up‒I consider it a match made in heaven.

Comprehensive Financial Plan

Through Guide Financial Planning, I offer three services; two of which are one-time engagements and one is ongoing. Our core initial offering is a comprehensive financial plan. This is a comprehensive overview of every area of your financial life, including cash flow and budgeting, retirement planning, investments, taxes, housing allowance, Social Security, estate planning, debt, and any other topic that is relevant to your situation. You can read a more in-depth description and see sample financial plans here.   

Quick Start Session

For those who are not ready for a comprehensive financial plan or just have a few key questions, I do something called a Quick Start Session. This is just a 1 ½ hour video call where I address your most pressing issues. Examples of that would be looking at retirement projections to see how long your money may last, analyzing what to do with an inheritance or how best to pay off debt, or even just a starter session for a new pastor where I can explain all of the uniqueness of clergy finance and help you figure out how it applies to your life. 

Ongoing Financial Planning

Those are the two one-time services that I provide. For those who do a comprehensive financial plan, they have the option of continuing with ongoing financial planning services. This is perfect for people who don’t like managing their finances on their own, need accountability in order to be a good steward, or want to make sure their spouse will be able to take things over as easily as possible if something happens to them. 

With this service, I will walk with you through life. We will meet twice a year and connect as often as you need in order to have confidence that you are on top of things and headed in the right direction. I can also manage investments for my ongoing clients, though that is not a requirement to work together. You can read more about ongoing financial planning here

If you are interested in any of the three financial planning services I just discussed, you can schedule a free introductory call to learn more and tell me about your situation here. Please only schedule a call with that link if you are actually interested in financial planning. For all other things, such as questions about how clergy finances work, please email me at amy@pastorswallet.com

Speaking Engagements

In addition to the financial planning services that I offer through Guide Financial Planning, I also do speaking engagements through Pastor’s Wallet. I love doing webinars for churches, denominations, and other groups. The fee for a 60-75 minute webinar that includes Q&A is currently $500. I do a very limited number of in-person speaking engagements for conferences and retreats, which you can email me about if you’re interested. 

People often ask me how I make money from Pastor’s Wallet since there are no ads. The truth is, I don’t really. The bulk of my income comes from financial planning through Guide FP. As far as Pastor’s Wallet is concerned, I only make money from speaking engagements and book royalties, which is enough to cover the costs of the website plus a little. I could probably make a lot more if I put advertisements on the blog, but I just find those so annoying that I don’t have the heart to do that to you. 

How Do You Know If You Need Financial Planning?

Let me end with a quick story. I grew up in Southern California. Once when I was a teenager, my friends and I stayed at the beach late and before we left a thick fog had rolled in from the ocean. By the time we got to our car, the fog was so thick that we could not see which way to go to get out of the parking lot. 

I ended up having to get out of the car and walk in front of it staring at the ground while my friend slowly rolled along behind me with the headlights on. We inched along for quite awhile until I found a curb and was able to follow it to the parking lot’s exit. Even now, decades later, I remember the emotions I experienced that night. It was incredibly unnerving not to be able to see where we were or what way we needed to go to get out of there. 

If that’s how you feel with your financial life, then you need a financial plan. A financial plan won’t change anything about your current situation. What it will do is lift the fog and give you a clear picture of where you currently are and what steps you need to take in order to go where you want to go in life. 



Here are some other articles you might find helpful:

What is Financial Planning?

What is Financial Planning for Pastors?

What Does the Bible Say About Financial Planning?

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What Is Form 4361 & What Is It Used For?

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If you’re new to the ministry, you may have heard about Form 4361 from someone. Likely another pastor has mentioned it and told you that it will save you a lot of money. What is this mysterious money-saving piece of paper?

What Is Form 4361?

Form 4361 is an IRS document that is used by ministers to opt out of public insurance programs. You can view the form itself here. Its official name is Application for Exemption From Self-Employment Tax for Use By Ministers, Members of Religious Orders and Christian Science Practitioners, which is why most people just refer to it as Form 4361.

The title references being exempt from self-employment tax because that is what is used to fund the public insurance programs Social Security and Medicare. An exemption means you don’t have to pay the taxes but you also don’t get to benefit from the programs (based on your exempt ministerial income).

The form includes your personal information, contact information, and also the information for the church or body that ordained, licensed, or commissioned you. You also have to give information regarding the date you were ordained, licensed, or commissioned, and when you have received $400 or more in self-employment income, at least some of it as compensation for ministerial services. That is because you have a limited time in which you are eligible to file the form and claim an exemption.

The Opportunity To Opt Out Of Self-Employment Taxes

As already mentioned, self-employment taxes are the 15.3% that ministers have to pay to fund Social Security and Medicare (even if you’re an employee of a church). Social Security is the safety net program that the US government developed in response to the crisis of the Great Depression. It has evolved over the years and now provides retirement benefits, survivor benefits, and disability benefits. Medicare is the program that provides healthcare for Americans over age 65.

Unlike most everyone else, pastors have the option to opt out of participation in these programs, and therefore, their taxes. Don’t you feel special?

Not all pastors can opt out, though. You can only opt out if you can sincerely say, “I am conscientiously opposed to, or because of my religious principles I am opposed to, the acceptance (for services I perform as a minister, member of a religious order not under a vow of poverty, or Christian Science practitioner) of any public insurance that makes payments in the event of death, disability, old age, or retirement; or that makes payments toward the cost of, or provides services for, medical care. (Public insurance includes insurance systems established by the Social Security Act.)

Why Would A Minister Opt Out?

It is illegal to opt out for economic reasons. The IRS makes that very clear. A legal exemption is based on one of two things:

  1. Conscientious opposition to the acceptance of public insurance
  2. Religious principles that oppose the acceptance of public insurance

So, it has to be either your conscience or your religious principles that drive the decision. The decision itself is about public insurance, which encompasses Social Security and Medicare.

I know a lot of pastors who opt out do so on the basis of the principle of stewardship. Everything we have is God’s and we are instructed to manage it wisely. Giving it to the government to mismanage is not good stewardship.

The Bible says that “a good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children.” (Proverbs 13:22, NIV) Because of this, some pastors feel that it is wrong to prepare for the future by putting money into a system that won’t leave an inheritance for your children when you can easily save in a way that does.

For others, they equate accepting public insurance as relying on the government for provision instead of God. Dependence on the government violates their conscience and religious principles so they have grounds to request an exemption.


Warnings For Ministers Who Opt Out Of Social Security

Whether or not you choose to opt out is a personal decision that you need to pray and think deeply about. You will find some very strong opinions on the matter online, but I’m not here to tell you what decision to make. I do need to warn you, though, of the consequences of your decision.

If you choose to opt out of Social Security, you need to make up for the benefits the program provides on your own. You need to provide your own retirement savings, life insurance, and disability insurance. You can read all about how to do that here.

Some other articles that you might find useful are:

Opting Out Of Social Security: A Step By Step Guide

What You Need To Know About Social Security Even If You’ve Opted Out

Can You Still Receive Social Security Benefits Even After Opting Out?

How Medicare Works For Pastors Who Have Opted Out Of Social Security

Can Pastors Opt Back Into Social Security?

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What is a Social Security Offset & How Does It Work?

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As you probably know if you read this blog (or can find out here), pastors have to pay both the employee and employer portions of Social Security and Medicare taxes as if they were self-employed. Those Social Security and Medicare taxes are also called SECA taxes, which is a lot faster to type so that’s what I’m going to call them from here on out. 

What Is A SECA Offset?

Some churches feel kind of bad that their pastors have to pay twice as much in SECA taxes than any other employee in the US. Since they aren’t allowed to pay SECA for their pastors, they instead pay them a little extra to cover the cost of the tax. That extra pay is called a SECA offset or Social Security offset. 

Even though it’s called a SECA offset, it’s technically just additional pay. In the eyes of the IRS, it’s just more taxable income. Even the church doesn’t really have any control over how the pastor uses that money. Unless the pastor is into tax evasion, though, I don’t think churches need to worry about whether or not it’s going towards SECA. 

How To Calculate The SECA Offset

When a church decides to pay their pastor a SECA offset, the next question is how much it should be. This is more complicated than it sounds. If you google it or read finance articles, you will see that usually the employer pays 7.65% and the employee pays 7.65% and pastors pay 15.3% SECA. But that’s not exactly right.

When you look at Schedule SE, which is the tax form used to calculate SECA, you’ll see that that tax rate is only applied to 92.35% of income. That means 7.65% is SECA-free. If you calculate that out, it means that half of a pastors SECA taxes are only really 7.0648% of the pastor’s income. 

Wait, that’s not all. The SECA offset is subject to federal and state income taxes as well. That means the SECA offset will increase the pastor’s income tax liability. Does the church need to offset that as well? It’s up to the church!

Whereas the SECA calculation is the same for everyone, different pastors are subject to different income tax rates. A pastor with a stay-at-home spouse may be in a 10% tax bracket while a pastor married to a cardiologist could be in a 35% tax bracket. Should the church calculate each SECA offset differently depending on the individual pastor’s tax situation?

How Much Should Churches Pay In SECA Offset?

I think if you ask the church to get that granular and specific, they’ll just give up on paying a SECA offset altogether!

My advice would be to just pick a calculation method and stick with it for everyone. Whether you do 7.65% or 7.0648% or something higher to help with income taxes, it doesn’t really matter a lot. The difference between 7.65% and 7.0648% of $100,000 is only $585. And most pastors don’t even make $100,000 so their difference would be even less. 

Pastors, don’t complain about tenths of a percent. Just be grateful your church is helping you out with this, many pastors don’t get any kind of offset. Churches, just pick something that won’t be too complicated for your poor volunteer treasurer and make her want to quit. How about a nice round 8%? 

If you get paid a SECA offset, let us know the calculation your church uses in the comments!

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You Just Had A Baby. Now What?

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Having a baby comes with a lot of responsibility and a long to-do list. Here are the things you should do legally and financially to set yourself up for success once your little one arrives.

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Should I Invest My 403(b) (Or IRA) In A Target Date Fund?

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This post mentions some specific investments. They are only examples and not an endorsement of those investments.

Perhaps the most difficult, or at least most intimidating, thing about saving for retirement isn’t finding money to set aside, but rather choosing how to invest that money. After all, 1 in 5 Americans who aren’t invested in the stock market says it’s because they “don’t know enough.”

What Is A Target Date Fund?

Because of this, in 1994, a new kind of mutual fund was created: the target date fund (TDF). It is a kind of investment designed so that you can just put your money in and forget about it until it’s time to take your money out. You will recognize them because they have a future date in their name, like LifePath Index 2040 Fund or T Rowe Price Retirement 2040 Fund.

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How Pastors Can Find Free Getaway Lodging for Sabbaticals or Vacations

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This is a guest post by Jon Neal, Executive Pastor of Hope Community Church in Minneapolis, MN. He has nothing to sell or promote, he just spent a lot of time researching this and thought he would share his efforts to be a blessing to you. 

There is something very powerful in getting outside your normal context. Maybe you have an upcoming sabbatical. Or maybe you are looking for a place to take a quiet/planning retreat. Or maybe you’re just looking for a place to take the family for a few days. There’s just one problem – lots of those options cost a lot of money!

While you could still scour Airbnb or VRBOs, there are many “off-market” properties available to pastors, some completely free of charge! The difficulty is that they often take a bit more effort than a simple Google search, so many rarely do it. However, these simple strategies don’t take you much time, and could save you hundreds if not thousands of dollars over the years.

Ask Other Pastors

Profound, huh? However, almost every single pastor has asked the same question, “Where can I find free lodging for retreats or getaways?” Why do all the research yourself when someone may have already done so? Asking fellow pastors or ministry leaders in your area could be a huge resource for free getaway options.

Ask Denomination or Affiliation Leaders

Again, you’re not the only person to ask this question. Those who oversee churches or church leaders are often some of the first to hear or learn about getaway options. See this curated list by Ed Stetzer some years ago. Many locations that have space available reach out to them, assuming that they would be the best positioned to share with other pastors.

Ask People in Your Congregation

Many people have, or know someone who has, a second home or vacation home. It never hurts to ask people in your church who may have connections to options you would never find otherwise. You’ll be shocked by the joy people get from their generosity. 

Reach out to Camps or Retreat Centers

Give a call or email to local camps or retreat centers in your area. This is literally their industry! They are in the business of lodging and getaways! Many Christian camps even have separate facilities specifically for pastors going on a retreat or on sabbatical.

Google Can Still Work

Imagine you have a heart for hospitality and you invest a lot of time and money into a property for the purpose of providing a place of retreat. If you want to get the word out, what will you likely do? Make a website. SEO will still pick up on keywords, so it never hurts to try “Free lodging for pastors” or other variants in your search bar.

Other Creative Options

Beyond that, there are a handful of creative ideas that you could employ. Some have done house swapping with others in different areas. Some have leveraged camping and national parks as a money-saving alternative for lodging. If you’re looking for a vacation, there are websites where people sell their nonrefundable or unwanted vacation/travel packages for fractions of the original price. The sky is the limit!

If you’ve made it this far, you are likely underwhelmed by the profoundness here. But here’s the thing – people RARELY do this. There are many people who invested a lot of time and money into places to offer them to pastors and their families free of charge, yet sometimes they rarely get used because no one takes the time to ask and find them. Don’t be one of those people!

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Why Don’t Churches Pay Payroll Taxes For Ministers?

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Tax season has just come to an end and most of us are either eagerly awaiting a return or bemoaning how much we had to pay. The rest of you filed an extension and are still trying to get your papers together or get your tax preparer to answer your calls. Isn’t tax season fun?

If you haven’t opted out of Social Security, then you would have filed Schedule SE to calculate your Social Security and Medicare taxes, also called payroll taxes. Front and center, in the biggest, boldest print is the title for Schedule SE: Self-Employment Tax. But if you’re a church employee and not self-employed, why are you filling out a form for self-employment taxes? Allow me to enlighten you.

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4 Simple Ways To Make Budgeting Easy And Effective

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A lot of people treat budgets like New Year’s resolutions. They are lofty and unrealistic goals with only an 8% chance of becoming reality. But that’s not how it’s supposed to be.

Budgets are supposed to be personalized money management tools that help you take control of your finances. If you don’t have a greater sense of control and empowerment, then your budget isn’t working.

If you don’t have the kind of budget I’m talking about, then you really need one. Follow this link to learn how to make a budget that serves as a GPS and not a jail cell. Once you’ve got your GPS budget going, here are a few simple ways to make budgeting easy and effective:



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